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Barack Obama Dialed My Number - And I am Not Even An American
Up until now, I have made it a point to post only articles about dating and relationships because that's where my passion is. But this last week, something different happened. Senator Barack Obama found my number, dialed all the right digits and said things that stirred me so deep that I was crying like a woman whose man had just told her for the first time "I love you".
You Think Your Boyfriend Or Husband Is Boring? Think Again
If you think all men are inherently stupid and immature, or resistant to change and sexually lazy, please pass go. Do not even bother to read this article. If on the other hand, you have a good relationship and a good man, and you think your boring man has “potential” and just needs a little bit of “support’ stepping up and becoming the fun, interesting, exciting and sexually intense man you want him to be, then we have something in common -- woman to woman...
Will The Real Sexually Bold And Confident Man Please Stand Up?
So many men in our society spend much time thinking about sex and fantasizing over it, and yet fearing it at the same time. They want to be with women in every sense of the word and many of them do get into relationships but...
The Real Secret Of Emotional Intimacy And Great Sex
Very few people are honest enough or insightful enough stop to think, “Wait a minute, I can talk the talk of emotional intimacy, but I still feel lonely. I intellectually know a lot about sex and sex techniques but my sexual experiences aren't that great. Why?"
The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get
Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being “cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON’T GET IT!
When You Fear Your Own Sexual Desires You Become Unattractive And Drive Love Away
Developing sexual confidence is actually a very simple process. So simple in fact, that you might wonder why we seem to have such a difficult time with it.
Playing The Catch Me Game - How To Make The Chase Thrilling For Him Or Her
A man or woman who is not afraid to to play-hard-to-get and knows how to let him or herself be caught is a rare breed in this day and time. Learning this fine art will definitely give you an edge that puts you ahead of the pack making you a more attractive chase.
Are You A Hot and Sexy Woman Or A Beautiful Woman - What’s The Difference?
Paris Hilton once remarked, "my boyfriends say I'm sexy but not sexual"... what's the difference? And what does it have to do with the kind of guys you end up with?
Guys -- Your Mother Could Be The Reason Your Relationships Never Work Out
Having too close but damaging relationship with your mother especially at the adolescence confusing period of your life confuses an already confused adolescent. It can cause long term self esteem issues.
Men Who Cheat And The Women Who Can't Stop Loving Them
Remember all the times you swore "If a guy cheated on me, I would kick him to the curb. To me that would be a big betrayal, which I don't think I could look past"? He cheated on you alright, you are upset, hurt and feel betrayed but you still love him despite yourself...
Seductive Playing Hard To Get - Why Every Woman Must Have A Spin To Her Game
And just in case you are interested ... this "spin" thingy works magic in the bedroom too... The truth is, if your man isn’t challenged enough, he will go find the challenge elsewhere.
5 Things Women Who Try Too Hard To Attract A Man Do To Chase Him Away
No matter what you try - flirting, complimenting, going out a lot more than most other people, hanging around dating sites just trying to meet more men, writing poetic emails, and even "coaching" men, nothing meaningful happens. Initial interest and a couple of dates and then it's downhill from there.
10 Types Of Men Women Don't Find Attractive
They say attractiveness resides on a subtle layer just below the surface of your skin but so does "not attractive." I have written many articles on what women find attractive in men and how to become attractive to women but it is equally important to know what turns women off. So feel free to do some soul-searching, you just might be turning the women off without even knowing it.
Does Having More Sex Make You Sexier?
This sexual myth has been doing the rounds quite a bit lately and I've been trying to do research to find out if this is true or not.
Why Women Fantasize About "Bad Boys" And 8 Things You Can Do To Increase Your "Bad Boy" Sex Appeal
So why do so many strong, take-no-nonsense, independent and self-actualized women fantasize about "bad boys"? The answer is simple. Nature designed it that way!
The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off (Pt. 2)
How we can take advantage of this knowledge so that when a man or woman comes looking we will be chosen as the desired mate. How can we best position ourselves so that his or her survival instinct radar zooms on us- Zap! You are the one I want!
The Two Most Desired Traits In A Mate - This Will Blow Your Pants Off (Part 1)
Guess what, this is so true. But not in the way you've been told. Evolutionary psychologists studying mate choice say when it comes to long term relationships, men and women look for two particular traits in a mate – and this apparently is universal. No it's not physical appearance, it isn't money, it isn't status, it's not even charisma or sense of humour...
10 Warning Signs He Is Not Committing To You Anytime Soon
When you are madly in love with a guy it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you don’t expect commitment anytime soon. Most guys are pretty honest about commitment but many women stay in the relationship hoping that he will come around in time.
Confessions Of Every Man's "Dream Woman"
I love men and I am (and always have been) damn good with the opposite sex (excuse me for blowing my own horn, but it is the truth). For many years, I was what Dr. Herb Goldberg calls the "Magic Lady" - the woman who causes men to behave in ways they had never dreamed they would and do things they'd ordinarily never would.
10 Tested With Incredible Success Attraction Tips For Short Men
If you are a short guy having problems attracting women because you are conscious of your height, these 10 tips will increase your assertive confidence and may be even give you that sleek sex appeal...
Women Want Sex Just As Much As Men - Men Just Don't Know How To Ask
The process of getting a woman who is confident, emotionally secure and free of sexual baggage to have sex with you can be lengthy, complicated, and even scary, but when you've done the following really well, sit back and let her come to (papa!) you...
8 Behaviors That Instantly Boost Your Sexual Visibility
Not communicating that you are a sexual person can hurt your dating (and relationship) success. Here are just 8 ways that sum up to sexual confidence...
People Who Easily Attract The Right People Have These Seven Characteristics In Common
There are certain characteristics that make some people better candidates for attracting true love than others. Often by the third or forth coaching session, I know with 90% certainty who will attract true love and who has a long way to go...
Why Mr. Charming Witty And Dynamic Can't Love You Or Commit To You
If he is twenty-something, well, he's too young and still has to feel things for a woman, but if a thirty-something plus man tells you he's never felt such emotion before, Honey, sit up and remove those romantic blinders off. Take a closer look at what you don't want to see...
20 Signs You Found True Love
How do you know you are with the right person? Hopefully this information will put your heart and mind to rest. But if it causes you to feel “uneasy" then you need to really look at who you are with.
Playing Hard To Get - How To Make Him or Her Want To Chase You
Before you start playing hard to get you must first make the sure the other person wants to play, and is interested in the chase. You must first give him or her reason to want to chase you.
7 Sure Signs Your Ex Definitely Wants You Back - Don't End Up The One That Got Away
Will they chase you if they think you've moved on - which you obviously haven't? How do you show him or her that you haven’t given up? How do you make it clear that you are free, available, waiting and wanting? Getting an ex back is not always easy and not always guaranteed, but carefully following these suggestions will double your chances of success...
Breaking Up - Is It Better To Completely Severe Ties Or Try To Be Friends?
I do not think there is one best decision that works for everyone and I've seen one decision that worked for one person completely fall flat on the face for another. Let's look at some of the pros and cons of each of the FOUR possible decisions-
How Do You Stop Loving Someone?
You've tried to move forward with your life but you just can't help it, you love him/her. People have told you "learn from it and get over it" but it's not as easy as it seems because you feel stuck. How do you switch off those feelings?
How To Play Hard To Get And Still Get Him Or Her To Fall In Love
Playing hard to get done the right way can be the most powerful form of seduction there is. And we all have the ability to craft transcendent experiences that can make our dates, lovers, and spouses feel they are flirting (literally!) with the unpredictable and the unknown in a most intense, agreeable, pleasing, charming, endearing, enticing, enlivening, and reality altering way. Who wouldn't want to spend eternity with someone like that?
If A Woman Flirts and Starts a Conversation With You Is She Attracted To You?
So if she smiles, flirts and starts a conversation with you, is she digging you or not? Well, yes and no. Listed here are just a few differences between flirting that says "I think you're so cute" and flirting that says "Hey you! Yes you. Come and get me!"
One Irreversible Quality That Guarantees Women Will Always Find You Sexually Attractive
Some men do this with so much ease (ready to cause explosions anytime, anywhere), but most men fall somewhere in the great continuum of barely able to cause a ripple and desiring to cause one. A woman may even allow him to approach or kiss her if she doesn't "feel any sparks"...
Seducing Women - Use These Secrets To Heighten Women’s Sexual Desire
And since men (and women) cannot be expected to produce any new useful “techniques" that will heighten women’s sexual desire, I’ll let you in on one of women's oldest and best-kept secrets.
The Truth Dating and Seduction Experts Don't Want You to Know!
Dating and Seduction "Experts" tend to portray fantasies of what they think singles want to hear, think and feel about themselves, and some “experts" do take advantage of this - stretch the truth a little bit just enough to give themselves that "expert" edge - and make money!
How Quickly Do Men Fall In Love?
Even if the process of "falling in love" happens to us in only two stages, it is actually much more difficult for us women to "fall in love' than it is for men. I am sure, this is news for some women, and even hard to believe for others. So let me try to explain how easy it is to increase chemistry with a man if you know what you are working with and what you are up against.
Why is An African neurotic?
For hundreds of years, Psychoanalysts have been analyzing ill people suffering from a thousand and one kinds of mind projections and phobias. Naturally after analyzing people for hundreds of years they’ve decided that a mind without projections and phobias is impossible - it is suspect. Not only suspect -- condemned. There is no hope for an African - he thinks life is to be enjoyed instead of endured!
It is time we re-examined some of the Teachings about the so - called Sacred Sexuality
Our present obsession with "holy" bonking (sorry! Sacred Sex) has become yet another obsession that borders the absurd. In our frantic effort to justify why we should have more sex (with some emotion) in our lives we've managed yet again to climb to another level of hypocrisy.
African Ancient Wisdom - Courtship, Attracting Love and Soul Mate
My people have a very interesting concept rooted in the cycles of life. In this ancient teaching, we are told that to fully celebrate life and feel alive, we must approach life with all our “three faces” together: the face of our childhood, the face of our youth and the face of our adulthood. Our three faces keep us alive and energized, once we lose the ability to carry all these three faces together we live a life of the living dead.
The Art Of Giving Pleasure Out Of Fullness
Intimacy in itself is a self-reflective process rooted in the concept of surrender - surrender to the facets of ourselves that are more unruly, highly energized, spontaneous, unpredictable, uncertain and closer to the primal forces of nature. In terms of sexual intimacy at profound intensity or emotional depth, most of us are virgins. Maybe we've "had sex" or "made love" and have had multiple "orgasms' with one or more partners, but many of us have yet to "do" somebody or allow ourselves to be "
An African Child Is Very Sexually Sophisticated At An Early Age
Given that the African child's environment is rich with people, animals, personal interactions and experiences, the African child incorporates the way of things and the facts of life through observation, imitation and personal trial and error rather than theories of purely academic pursuits. The result is that an African child is very sexually sophisticated at an early age. An African child thus when asked about sex will reply, "I have always known".
Do African Women Have Orgasms?
The issue of whether or not African women have orgasms brings to the fore front a disturbing reality “how many other unconscious and false assumptions have we made about Africans?
Sex Education In African Schools - What Are We Teaching Our Children?
The "modern" modules of education, concepts, strategies, phrases and the type of sexual vocabulary that Africans are being asked and bribed into embracing are turning our genitals into tools, our sexual partners into mechanics or computer operators and sex into a business or bargain.
In This Time Of AIDS Crisis Silence Is Suicidal
Our people have a saying: “even a crocodile’s back can be cracked by a whip made out of its own skin?” What most of us have been doing since last century is suspend our responsibilities hoping that HIV/AIDS will suddenly disappear the way it came...
The Way HIV/AIDS In Africa Is Being Handled
Donors, policy makers, researchers and behavioural scientist interested in helping Africa fight the HIV/IDS epidemic must become Africa-literate to understand and witness the price Africans are paying (with their lives) for the way the HIV/AIDS epidemic in Africa is being handled.
African Flirtation and Seduction Culture
Flirting and seduction is one of those things that both genders kind of grow into and enjoy as a way of creating erotic tension (a lot of such behaviour such as taunting, daring, heckling, cat calls and open admiration of body parts would get many slapped with a sexual harassment law suit in North America). Just admitting that I loved it when men openly admire me on a Toronto TV call-in show got me told by a very angry woman to "go back to Africa."

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