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Resolving Conflict in Marriage: 3 Helpful Conflict Resolution Strategies For Couples

By: Mike Lee

[ Posted On: 2009-12-21 ]

Resolving conflict in marriage is not that hard, especially if you have an open heart and an open mind. Unfortunately, that is not usually the case. What regularly happens between two partners is that their stubborn levels increase as the fight escalates. It’s a lot like children in the playground actually.

But there are ways to handle such delicate situations. Read this article and find out how resolving conflict in marriage can be as easy as a walk in the park.

1) Walk the Dog Together.

I wasn’t kidding when I said that fixing your marriage is as easy as a walk in the park. To be honest, conflict arises from poor communication. Perhaps you and your partner haven’t had enough time to talk lately.

If you have a pet, why don’t you walk it together? That should give you time to think and talk with your spouse without any real pressure. Plus, the sight of your dog will make the whole atmosphere friendlier and a lot less threatening!

Find the time to do other activities like taking a bath together, doing the laundry together and even just plain reading next to each other on the sofa. The more relaxed you are around each other, the easier it is to talk about the issue.

2) Put Yourself in the Other’s Shoes.

A relationship cannot always be about you. It also has to be about the other person. One way of resolving conflict in marriage is trying to understand where they are coming from.

If they get angry when you party out all night, imagine yourself in their shoes, waiting for your phone call at 1 in the morning. Imagine all their worries and what-ifs that must have plagued them all evening.

This way, you can understand where the other person is coming from and the other’s reaction into perspective. It also helps you avoid overreacting in turn. Resolving conflict in marriage also means hearing the other person out.

3) Honesty is the Best Policy.

Lies weaved over lies can be very troublesome and will eventually lead to two people breaking up. Or in this case, getting divorced.

Resolving conflict in marriage means having to be honest about your feelings and about what you’ve been doing. The more you lie, the more complicated the web of lies becomes.

If you keep breaking your partner’s trust, you’ll one day end up becoming “the boy (or girl) who cried wolf.” Breaking a person’s trust does not necessarily guarantee that you’ll get another chance.

Resolving conflict in marriage is not a joke. It has a lot to do with your own values as well as your spouse’s. Don’t let the little things bug you. Instead, focus on the goal of smoothing things out between you and your loved one.

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